Ever wonder why the same disappointing or nasty things keep happening to you over and over again?
I know I do.
Sometimes it’s amazing that it takes me so long to understand that this has something to do with ME!
That some unconscious belief or unfortunate bit of mis-learning is continually creating circumstances that I don’t like or want. Over and over again.
So, what to do?
First, admit it.
I create my own stuff. I am, in fact, committed to this stuff whether or not I like it. And, I am the only one who can change this unhappy circumstance.
I have to start by replacing those mostly unconscious loyalties to the way I do things or think things that produce unhappy sometimes really bad results with thoughts, practices and goals that support the purposeful, productive things I’d like to achieve.
So, if I want the life I say I want but don’t have - it’s that simple. It’s mine to fix. No excuses.
And if I don’t? Well, as Ricky would certainly say, “I got some ‘splainin’ to do!”